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John Lennon and Yoko Ono Birth Data for John: October 9, 1940 6:30 PM Manchester, England Birth Data for Yoko: February 18, 1933 8:30 PM Tokyo, Japan The Psyche and Eros Compatibility Report What is it you want to know when you are checking out a romantic relationship? Basically two things. First, you want to understand the emotional needs, temperament, hang-ups and issues each person brings to the relationship. In other words, the relationship potential of each person. And then, of course, you want to understand how the emotional needs, temperament, hang-ups and issues of one person relate to those of another person in order to see how they would get along. In other words, the compatibility analysis. The first two sections of the complete Psyche and Eros Relationship Analysis describes the relationship potential of each person. Sections 3 and 4 is the compatibility analysis and describes how the two people experience each other and the relationship from the perspective of each person. The myth of Psyche and Eros is a love story which shows the soul's longing for -- and ultimate attainment of -- love. Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of students of astrology, these positions, along with other technical information, are listed below: Data for John: Data for Yoko: Tropical Zodiac Tropical Zodiac House System: PLACIDUS House System: PLACIDUS War Time observed Standard time observed Time Zone: 0 hours West Time Zone: 9 hours East GMT: 17:30:00 GMT: 11:30:00 53 N 30 2 W 15 35 N 42 139 E 46 Sun 16 deg 16 min Lib Sun 29 deg 23 min Aqu Moon 3 deg 33 min Aqu Moon 11 deg 08 min Sag Merc 8 deg 33 min Sco Merc 7 deg 53 min Pis Venus 3 deg 13 min Vir Venus 13 deg 47 min Aqu Mars 2 deg 40 min Lib Mars 15 deg 07 min Vir Jup 13 deg 42 min Tau Jup 20 deg 42 min Vir Sat 13 deg 13 min Tau Sat 9 deg 44 min Aqu Uran 25 deg 33 min Tau Uran 20 deg 33 min Ari Nept 26 deg 02 min Vir Nept 9 deg 05 min Vir Pluto 4 deg 11 min Leo Pluto 21 deg 38 min Can Asc. 21 deg 37 min Ari Asc. 8 deg 30 min Lib MC 7 deg 44 min Cap MC 9 deg 25 min Can 2nd 0 deg 33 min Gem 2nd 5 deg 56 min Sco 3rd 20 deg 59 min Gem 3rd 6 deg 38 min Sag 5th 26 deg 03 min Can 5th 12 deg 03 min Aqu 6th 23 deg 11 min Leo 6th 12 deg 13 min Pis SECTION I: How John Relates to Other People Libra on 7th house cusp You are independent, aggressive, competitive and spontaneous. When you see something or someone you want, you go after it with an endearingly childlike directness. You are a hopeless romantic. When someone does not respond to your overtures, you are crushed. You are utterly captivated by lovely looking, well-dressed, well-mannered people who are charming, gentle, cultivated - and know how to handle you diplomatically when you become over-enthusiastic or volatile. Your partners subtly manipulate rather than fight. You do like having your own way and one way or another you manage to get it. Despite your powerful persona, however, you are emotionally far needier than most people realize for love and acceptance from people who admire your strength rather than fear it. Your partners tend to be charming, romantic and often creative. While they may outwardly yield to your need to lead the way, they are by no means weak. Sometimes they are gently manipulative and can be quite stubborn. Physical attractiveness matters to you. Mercury in 7th You love good conversation, frequent change of surroundings and a stimulating environment. You tend to draw people - often a good deal younger than you - who are extremely verbal and share your many interests. Personal ties may develop through your work. Your close ties are usually with professional people. They may also be creative in business or the arts, requiring them to speak or write for the public. Your relationships are often marked by frequent letter-writing and telephone calls and traveling. Venus, Ruler of 7th house, is in 6th: You are a dynamic, take-charge sort of person. You like to run your show - not so much from a need to dominate as from a need to be independent of others' authority. When you enter into a relationship, you are not interested in competition or vying for power or control. You seek someone to complement and support you. Your partners are gentle, practical people who are there to help. Sometimes they are people who have worked with or for you in some capacity. Generally, you are the one who, in the eyes of the world, has more status. However, your partner is the rock on whom you depend. In your life, there is some connection between relationship and healing. Either it is your responsibility to perform that role -- psychologically or physically -- or your partner does so for you. Ultimately, when you are irresistibly drawn to someone who appears to need help, you may be latching on to that situation in order to heal some part of yourself. The potential danger is that would-be healers may have an unconscious need to exacerbate the hurt in others in a continuing effort to heal their own pain. Moon Opposition Pluto with an orb between 1/2 and 1 degree You had an over-controlling parent and something inside of you decided that no one else would ever have that kind of control over you again. You tend to repress your deepest feelings and fears and are surprised when close ties suggest you're manipulative. Moon Trine Mars with an orb between 1/2 and 1 degree You are passionate, competitive and high-spirited and enjoy relationships with assertive, independent people. You're restless and active and, when you are close to someone, like to do things together. You enjoy a good fight and don't carry a grudge. Mars Trine Moon with an orb between 1/2 and 1 degree You have a tremendous amount of energy and, in a relationship, are happiest when you and your partner are actively participating in something together. You tend to be quite competitive and can even be somewhat combative. You should always avoid the timid. Mercury Sextile MC with an orb of less than 1 degree Since you were a child in school, your intellectual and communicative skills attracted the attention of those in positions of authority and you were always able to make your way by being exceptionally clever. This facility serves you well as an adult. Moon Quincunx Venus with an orb of less than 1 degree Your emotional life is turbulent. Those who love you aren't always very nurturing and those who nurture you often don't truly understand you. You are always involved in a close relationship, but it rarely has the emotional intimacy you privately long for. Mercury Opposition Saturn with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees You are a serious person and inclined to be somewhat inflexible in your thinking. Since you tend to be rather judgmental, you could only be happy with someone who is in philosophical agreement with you and conceptualizes the world as you do. Sometimes you are rather taciturn. Mercury Square Pluto with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees You're not awfully good at being disagreed with. You delve into matters, think them through thoroughly and expect your conclusions to be universally shared. Flexibility is not your strong suit. No one should try to lie to you or keep things from you. Somehow you ferret out others' secrets although you keep your own. Venus Trine MC with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees Love cannot exist for you without admiration and respect. You like to feel proud of your relationships and often form close ties with those in positions of authority. You are socially conscious and attract friends and good fortune through your personal charm and talent. Sun SemiSquare Venus with an orb between 1 and 2 degrees Your love nature is very turbulent. You form relationships impulsively and then worry it's with the wrong person. There seems to be a dichotomy between the person you know yourself to be and the person you feel you should be in order to be valued and loved. Sun Opposition Asc. with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees You have a strong, dynamic personality which is not always supported by the inner confidence that you are sufficiently recognized and respected. You may, at times, over-compensate for this anxiety by being excessively assertive or egocentric. Mercury Opposition Jupiter with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees Details are not your cup of tea. You are fascinated by philosophy and the world of ideas. You are a great talker and reader and your best companions will be those who share your concepts and ideals. You prefer professional people with a certain flair. Moon Square Mercury with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees You are sensitive to the point of being rather thin-skinned and too easily hurt. You're often being emotional when you think you're being rational and detached when you are expressing how you feel. It's never wise to argue with you until you've calmed down. Venus Square Uranus with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees You need to be close and you need to be free. This is a major life conflict which has always created complications for you in close personal relationships. One manifestation of this may be a tendency to pursue the unavailable or the unreliable. Mars Square MC with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees Power is sexy to you and even when a relationship is not a romantic one, you find ambitious go-getters in positions of authority very magnetic and fascinating. It is important to you that close ties not only share your goals but are prepared to fight for them. Moon Trine Uranus with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees Your close personal relationships are marked by a sense of comradeship, friendship and a mutual respect for each other's need for independence. Once a relationship is established, you don't require constant contact and reassurance. Space enhances the tie. Moon Trine Neptune with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees You are sensitive and intuitive and have an active inner life only known by those who are very close. You and your close ties like to share a private world no one else can enter and you spend most of your time alone together or with close friends and family. Jupiter Trine MC with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees When you were little, your teachers liked you and when you grew up, your employers liked you. You tend to approach all relationships both personal and professional with an easy assurance. It is important to you that close ties enjoy society's approval. Saturn Trine MC with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees You learned at an early age to be cautious with people in a position of authority. This reserve may also extend to personal relationships with those you may admire or respect. Old parenting issues inevitably infiltrate all of your close relationships. Sun does not aspect Moon Your parents' interests and emotional natures, while not in violent conflict, were so different it was hard to understand how they ever came together. You associate close relationships with both longing and loneliness and may be unclear about roles. SECTION II: How Yoko Relates to Other People Aries on 7th house cusp You, who can charm others so easily, are attracted to people who are both passionate and direct. You may tend to project your own aggressive and controlling tendencies onto other people and then resent them for it. You cannot be alone. You need partnerships. You form impulsive attachments. You have a knack of pursuing the people you are attracted to without appearing overly aggressive or anxious. Others may marvel at the way ordinarily aloof people respond to you. You unconsciously arouse competitiveness. You are charming, romantic and attractive and need to know that other people like you. Self-assertion frightens you and when circumstances make it necessary you usually feel victimized and over-react. You admire people who are strong and aggressive. Ideally, you connect with people who share your views and are less inhibited than you are about fighting for them. You admire their courage and independence. While they may outwardly appear to be the more dominant partner, this is rarely actually the case. Mars, Ruler of 7th house, is in 12th: You form relationships impulsively -- frequently with people you meet through work. Perhaps it's because you are both so preoccupied with the shared interest in the projects at hand that the emotional dissimilarities are less obvious to you. It may also be true, if you meet through work, the relationship must be kept secret which initially adds an intensity and excitement which might obscure other issues. Your partners are gentle and hard-working and tend to be more comfortable behind the scenes. That in no way makes them weak or passive. They simply abjure flamboyance. That's fine with you. You are pleasant and well-mannered yourself. However, you are also a social being and, if your partner's natural reticence extends to a taste for solitude, that could present a problem for you. You have a highly developed aesthetic sense and may connect with people whose tastes are more practical and functional. Too many differences in the so-called little things can lead to mutual sniping and irritation. You can't bear a disharmonious environment. It can affect you physically. Your response would be avoidance. It's important to remember that no matter how intrigued you may be by shared practical and professional interests, if the emotional and aesthetic bonds aren't there, the relationship can't work. When you are in tune in those ways, you have something very special: a relationship that is very private and very close, perhaps one that no one else entirely understands. Uranus in 7th Never underestimate your partners. No matter how passive or pleasant they may appear, they are strongly individualistic and unconventional and will never do anything - even to save the relationship - that would compromise their ideals and convictions. The course of your relationships never runs smoothly. Either there are many changes or, if the relationship is an enduring one, the partner maintains his or her independence by being emotionally inaccessible, unpredictable or absorbed in innovative work. Mercury Opposition Neptune with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees Your imagination is so powerful that, if you don't have a strong creative or spiritual outlet, you may at times be over-influenced by your own fantasies or those of others. Beware of gullibility. In the long run, telling the truth is in your best interest. Moon Square Neptune with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees Your mother was either over-idealized or rejected as a feminine role model. You did not get a clear sense of who you were as a child and, as a result, may set impossibly high standards for yourself. You tend to be a loner. Mercury Trine MC with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees Since you were a child in school, your intellectual and communicative skills attracted the attention of those in positions of authority and you were always able to make your way by being exceptionally clever. This facility serves you well as an adult. Saturn Trine Asc. with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees You were not encouraged to be overly expressive when you were a child and as an adult still tend to be somewhat reserved. You often give the impression of being serious or even stern when, in truth, you are simply feeling shy or self-protective. Neptune Sextile MC with an orb of less than 1 degree You are guided far more by your spiritual ideals than by more material motivations. While intimate ties are important to you, if the other person didn't share your more cosmic goals, the relationship could not last. Your dreams often become realities. Mercury Quincunx Asc. with an orb of less than 1 degree You relate to your world through your intellect but you may be so absorbed in your own ideas or projects that you don't always perceive when misunderstandings or cross-purposes place you at odds with others and set up unnecessary barriers to communication. Venus Conjunct Saturn with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees Since you were a child you have felt you could not just be yourself and be loved. You had to earn your love in some way by being or doing something special. You are far more self-protective than most people realize. Your best love partners are also work partners. Moon Square Mercury with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees You are sensitive to the point of being rather thin-skinned and too easily hurt. You're often being emotional when you think you're being rational and detached when you are expressing how you feel. It's never wise to argue with you until you've calmed down. Moon Square Mars with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees Your love-hate relationship with your mother has led to an emotional ambivalence in current close ties. You are, at once, very needy and very angry about your neediness. This may make you somewhat cantankerous at times. You are very quick-tempered. Moon Sextile Venus with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees Lucky you. As a child you received a great deal of love leaving you not only with the capacity to love deeply yourself but with the security of knowing that you have value and that there will always be people you can turn to. You form love ties easily. Moon Sextile Saturn with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees While you may not be overly demonstrative emotionally, you take close personal relationships very seriously and always feel a strong sense of responsibility and loyalty. You are not a fair-weather friend. When someone needs you, you are always there. Moon Sextile Asc. with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees You are more expressive of what you're feeling than you sometimes realize. People respond to you in a very immediate way because they can intuitively sense what is emotionally motivating you and they feel comfortable. You may attract public attention at times. Mercury Sesquiquadrate Pluto with an orb between 1 and 2 degrees You're not awfully good at being disagreed with. You delve into matters, think them through thoroughly and expect your conclusions to be universally shared. Flexibility is not your strong suit. No one should try to lie to you or keep things from you. Somehow you ferret out others' secrets although you keep your own. Moon Quincunx MC with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees You are forever embroiled in controversy with people in positions of authority which, at times, may attract public attention. You want and need approval more than you care to admit to yourself, but it must be on your terms and not entail any compromise. Venus Quincunx Mars with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees Yours was not a happy childhood and, while there is nothing you want more than a close love relationship, you may also fear it. You probably have an active sex life but may have some discomfort acknowledging feelings of love, dependence or vulnerability. Mercury Opposition Mars with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees Since you tend to be rather irritable and sharp-tongued at times you require a partner with a sense of humor who is not too thin-skinned. You are bright, curious and restless and enjoy the company of those who are equally high-spirited and enterprising. Venus Trine Asc. with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees You are personally attractive with a natural charm which tends to draw people to you. Your native courtesy tends to make others assume that you share their values even when this isn't quite the case. You are unusually sensitive to others' appearance. Sun does not aspect Moon Your parents' interests and emotional natures, while not in violent conflict, were so different it was hard to understand how they ever came together. You associate close relationships with both longing and loneliness and may be unclear about roles. Sun does not aspect Asc. People do not receive an accurate first impression of you. Owing to shyness or lack of confidence, you have cultivated a persona which is not expressive of the person you experience yourself to be. This creates complications in personal relationships. SECTION III: The Relationship from John's Point of View John, the following information explains how you view your relationship with Yoko, and explores some of the major issues that arise. Your Asc. Conj Yoko's Uranus (orb < 1 deg) You responded to Yoko's magnetism from the first time you met. You find it interesting and unusual. Yoko enjoys being with you because you respond to uniqueness. You don't like not being able to depend on someone and often find Yoko's behavior unpredictable. Your Mercury Trine Yoko's Mercury (orb < 1 deg) You are clearly on the same intellectual wave length. You think along the same lines and you often arrive, independently, at the same conclusions. One reason your relationship can endure is you share ideas and have similar responses to most life situations. Your Mercury Trine Yoko's MC (orb < 1 deg) This would be a very good working relationship. You connect very strongly with Yoko's goals and ambitions and can, through your communication skills, work together to attain them. Yoko respects your intelligence and opinions and will frequently defer to your judgment. Your Mercury Sextile Yoko's Neptune (orb < 1 deg) There are times you understand what Yoko isn't saying better than what is actually being said. You intuitively tune into each other -- even when you're not actually together. Yoko understands your views and admires the way you express them. You share dreams and ideals. Your MC Sextile Yoko's Mercury (orb < 1 deg) You really admire Yoko's intelligence and way of speaking. There is something about it that you respect. It vibrates with a certain authority for you and you will defer to it. Yoko enjoys sharing new ideas with you. You would work well together. Your Asc. Conj Yoko's Uranus (orb 1-5 deg) You responded to Yoko's magnetism from the first time you met. You find it interesting and unusual. Yoko enjoys being with you because you respond to uniqueness. You don't like not being able to depend on someone and often find Yoko's behavior unpredictable. Your Sun Oppos Yoko's Uranus (orb 1-5 deg) You were attracted from the very first meeting. You felt, on one hand, that you completely understood Yoko and, on the other, that you never knew what to expect next. You admire Yoko's originality. It taps into a uniqueness of your own. Your Venus Oppos Yoko's Sun (orb 1-5 deg) The strong bond of love and affection between you will transcend the most difficult times. You love being physically together. Yoko makes you feel loved and valued, stimulates your creative energy and shares your values. You have fun together. Your Venus Oppos Yoko's Mercury (orb 1-5 deg) Communication and shared intellectual interests are an important part of your relationship but sometimes Yoko's way of speaking or writing rubs you the wrong way. It's not exactly what is being said, but the way it's being said that may tend to bother you. Your MC Oppos Yoko's MC (orb 1-5 deg) However else you may differ, when it comes to personal goals and life purpose, you appear to be moving in the same direction. You have similar attitudes toward authority and your compatible personal philosophies suggest you could achieve together professionally. Your Mercury Square Yoko's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg) Yoko tends to intimidate you and you don't like to express ideas which are in disagreement. Even when you know you are right, you wind up feeling wrong. You often feel that Yoko misinterprets your ideas and doesn't understand you. Your Sun Trine Yoko's Venus (orb 1-5 deg) You feel Yoko's admiration and love and respond in kind. There is something about the way Yoko looks at you which makes you feel not only more confident and attractive but capable of achieving more. You admire Yoko's personal style, charm and talent. Your Moon Trine Yoko's Asc. (orb 1-5 deg) From the first time you saw Yoko you intuitively sensed an emotional tie and were attracted. You are very comfortable together. You enjoy special feelings of closeness and camaraderie. Yoko may outwardly manifest the feelings you may hold within. Your MC Trine Yoko's Neptune (orb 1-5 deg) Your shared spiritual views and interests powerfully affect your life style and your personal career directions. This idealism is important to both of you and you are ready to make material sacrifices for it. Yoko idealizes you and you admire Yoko. Your Moon Sesqu. Yoko's Mars (orb 1-5 deg) When the two of you are together, you are competitive and combative. This might be owing to a sexual energy which is present and with which you are not entirely comfortable. You may feel that if you are not especially assertive, you will be somehow overrun. Your Moon Sesqu. Yoko's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg) There is something about Yoko's basic philosophy or world view which throws you somewhat off-center emotionally. You may often find yourself caught up by Yoko's enthusiasm or going along with things which are not truly representative of your own feelings. Your Sun does not aspect Yoko's Moon While you may communicate very well on a rational level, sometimes you may feel as if Yoko doesn't really understand you. You may find Yoko's emotional responses incomprehensible as well. You have to make a special effort to share and connect. Your Moon does not aspect Yoko's Moon While you may like and respect each other and understand each other intellectually, there is an emotional distance which might prevent you from being truly at home with or comfortable with each other. You may, at times, find each other's moods or responses puzzling. Your Mercury does not aspect Yoko's Venus There is something about Yoko's personal style and taste and way of expressing affection which doesn't comfortably merge with your own. It may not exactly lead to war, but it may have delayed the initial attraction. Your philosophies aren't quite in sync. Your Venus does not aspect Yoko's Venus While you may be very fond of each other, you're quite dissimilar in some important ways. Your tastes diverge widely and you tend to express love very differently. You don't like the same people and have different interests. You wish Yoko dressed differently. Yoko's Sun in your 12th house: There is something about this relationship which is not easy to define. You connected easily and almost immediately found your lives closely intertwined - not always comfortably. There is an odd sense of destiny. You may be involved by chance not by choice. You find you extend yourself more for Yoko than almost anyone else you've known and receive for your troubles precious little appreciation. It's almost as if you were obliged to pay off an old, unremembered debt. Yoko's Moon in your 8th house: Yoko has a knack for tuning into your deepest needs and longings which may give more power over you than either of you may realize. Yoko is intriguing to you sexually and has a way of subtly manipulating you which may be difficult for outsiders to comprehend. You have no secrets from Yoko. Sometimes you have the unsettling feeling Yoko knows more about you than you know about yourself. This certainly adds to the fascination but it also may threaten you and cause you to try to resist the relationship. Yoko's Mercury in your 12th house: Something about the way Yoko talks and thinks makes you a little uncomfortable. Yoko seems to tune into the dark, hidden side of you that you don't entirely accept and brings it to the surface. Sometimes you respond by withdrawing. On the other hand, it's nice to be understood. To the extent that Yoko's perceptions relate to shared spiritual interests and are helpful, they force you to deal with difficult matters and improve your perspective. Don't let Yoko justify a weakness. Yoko's Venus in your 11th house: Yoko is a wonderful friend to you who cares about you and shares your values and goals. You may have met through mutual friends and continue to have wonderful friends in common. Yours is a lovely, non-possessive relationship. You are very kind to each other. A strong interest you share with other friends probably involves both of you in an organization where you work hard to realize similar goals. This group connection forms a strong, solid basis for your relationship. You genuinely like and help one another. Yoko's Mars in your 6th house: This is someone who probably means well but there is something about the way Yoko works which gets on your nerves perhaps by being too bossy or too demanding. However, it may be that the source of your irritation is not in Yoko, but in you. Some people's energy can feel threatening. It may be difficult for you to work cooperatively with Yoko because of the feelings of competition between you. If you are not in touch with this, it may manifest in your not feeling very well when you are physically together. Yoko's Jupiter in your 6th house: Yoko is definitely someone who makes your life easier. You work wonderfully together. Yoko helps you to do what you know you want, expands on your ideas and helps you to accomplish by being generous with time and knowledge. Yoko has a beneficial effect not only upon your work but on your physical and mental health. Your mood and sense of well-being vastly improves in Yoko's presence. You may have similar good health practices which you encourage in each other. Yoko's Saturn in your 11th house: Your relationship may be wonderful in many respects but your social life isn't exactly the most satisfying part of it. It may be that your circumstances are such that you lack opportunity to meet people. Your friends may not be comfortable with Yoko. Yoko may feel that your social interests or obligations are at odds and it is hard for you to have fun together. It would be helpful if you both worked hard for an organization devoted to an intense interest you both share equally. Yoko's Uranus in your 12th house: Why do you feel so rattled in Yoko presence? Whatever issues you successfully manage to repress and not deal with seem to come bubbling up to the surface when you are together. Actually, this can be a good thing. Unfortunately, it doesn't always feel that way. It may be that the nervous excitement Yoko generates within you stirs up aspects of your inner self with which you are not entirely comfortable. You may behave in a way you don't like and then blame Yoko. Calm down and trust your natural responses. Yoko's Neptune in your 6th house: This would only be a good working relationship if your project involved something artistic or spiritual. Since you are often so in tune with each other, you can communicate shared ideas almost without speaking which can make for a wonderful collaboration. However, if you are working on something more practical which requires clear and precise communication, confusion arises which, at times, could sabotage your results and have a negative effect upon your relationship -- especially if you felt Yoko was being irresponsible. Yoko's Pluto in your 4th house: This relationship may have caused some intense conflict in your family. Yoko is very different from the people with whom you grew up and While this differentness might seem interesting or exotic to you, it is threatening to the other members of your family. In addition, some of the circumstances surrounding this relationship might lead to or necessitate a major change of residence. This can be complicated since your life styles have been so different to begin with. Naturally, the one who has to adapt is you. SECTION IV: The Relationship from Yoko's Point of View Yoko, the following information explains how you view your relationship with John, and explores some of the major issues that arise. Your Venus Square John's Jupiter (orb < 1 deg) The affection and good feeling you share are so strong, you are inclined to share projects and activities which will be lucky and fulfilling for you both. John's kindness and generosity expands your feelings and your love inspires John to be successful. Your Venus Square John's Saturn (orb < 1 deg) Sometimes John puts too much pressure on you which can be a turn-off -- especially when that pressure becomes too demanding, too jealous or, in some way, too inhibiting of your pleasure. A natural response to withdraw only makes it worse. John secretly longs for your approval. Your Mercury Trine John's Mercury (orb < 1 deg) You are clearly on the same intellectual wave length. You think along the same lines and you often arrive, independently, at the same conclusions. One reason your relationship can endure is you share ideas and have similar responses to most life situations. Your MC Trine John's Mercury (orb < 1 deg) You really admire John's intelligence and way of speaking. There is something about it that you respect. It vibrates with a certain authority for you and you will defer to it. John enjoys sharing new ideas with you. You would work well together. Your Mercury Sextile John's MC (orb < 1 deg) This would be a very good working relationship. You connect very strongly with John's goals and ambitions and can, through your communication skills, work together to attain them. John respects your intelligence and opinions and will frequently defer to your judgment. Your Sun Oppos John's Venus (orb 1-5 deg) You feel John's admiration and love and respond in kind. There is something about the way John looks at you which makes you feel not only more confident and attractive but capable of achieving more. You admire John's personal style, charm and talent. Your Mercury Oppos John's Venus (orb 1-5 deg) You are especially responsive to the way John loves and expresses affection. You also share many of the same values and tastes. You love and have an aesthetic appreciation of John's looks, personal style and creativity. You genuinely like each other. Your MC Oppos John's MC (orb 1-5 deg) However else you may differ, when it comes to personal goals and life purpose, you appear to be moving in the same direction. You have similar attitudes toward authority and your compatible personal philosophies suggest you could achieve together professionally. Your Sun Square John's Uranus (orb 1-5 deg) You were attracted from the very first meeting. You felt, on one hand, that you completely understood John and, on the other, that you never knew what to expect next. You admire John's originality. It taps into a uniqueness of your own. Your Venus Trine John's Sun (orb 1-5 deg) The strong bond of love and affection between you will transcend the most difficult times. You love being physically together. John makes you feel loved and valued, stimulates your creative energy and shares your values. You have fun together. Your Mars Trine John's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg) You really enjoy being together, sharing interests and activities. This is a productive working relationship as well as a satisfying personal one. You enjoy helping John to grow and achieve and John stimulates your best energy. Over-enthusiasm leads to excesses. Your Mars Trine John's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg) You really do work well together. There's something about John's influence which helps you to organize and harness your energy so that you can achieve your goals. You, in turn, stimulate John to dare and not be over cautious. You're a good team. Your Asc. Trine John's Moon (orb 1-5 deg) John identifies with you in a very personal way and you respond in a rather physical way to John's emotional state. Sometimes this can create great bonding and closeness and sometimes it can lead to irritation. This is a very intimate and emotional tie. Your Asc. Sextile John's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg) This is a compulsive tie. A relationship like this will either be very intense and very binding or will simply not exist. John projects powerful images onto you which, unconsciously, John may fear and need to control. This can lead to subtle power struggles. Your MC Sextile John's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg) Sometimes John's expansiveness, While personally appealing, seems a bit laid back or at odds with your personal life goals. You are wonderful friends. However, you can be somewhat affected by John's enthusiasm which can lead to overreactions or impulsiveness. Your MC Sextile John's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg) John may help you to crystallize and work hard toward your goals and ambitions and, at the same time, be so controlling and demanding that you may question whose goals you are working to achieve. John constantly brings up issues of responsibilities. Your Sun Quincunx John's Mars (orb 1-5 deg) John arouses in you either love or hate - nothing lukewarm here. There is a strong underlying sexual energy and if circumstances make this inappropriate, it may manifest in competitiveness or quarreling. Here is someone who really challenges you. Your Sun Quincunx John's Neptune (orb 1-5 deg) There is a strong element of fantasy and idealization in this relationship and it is important to make sure that the person you think is so wonderful is really the person before you. Clarity is not the key word here. There is a lovely sense of Shangri-la. Your Sun Quincunx John's Pluto (orb 1-5 deg) You may feel an excessively strong need to assert yourself as your ego feels very threatened by John's subtle power over you. Your fascination with John makes it difficult for you to sever the tie even if you feel the relationship is wrong for you. Your Moon Quincunx John's Jupiter (orb 1-5 deg) There is something about John's basic philosophy or world view which throws you somewhat off-center emotionally. You may often find yourself caught up by John's enthusiasm or going along with things which are not truly representative of your own feelings. Your Moon Quincunx John's Saturn (orb 1-5 deg) No matter how close you, you're never entirely comfortable emotionally when you are together. John subtly affects your self-confidence and you may have a disquieting sense that no matter how hard you try to please you never entirely succeed. Your Sun does not aspect John's Moon While you may communicate very well on a rational level, sometimes you may feel as if John doesn't really understand you. You may find John's emotional responses incomprehensible as well. You have to make a special effort to share and connect. Your Moon does not aspect John's Moon While you may like and respect each other and understand each other intellectually, there is an emotional distance which might prevent you from being truly at home with or comfortable with each other. You may, at times, find each other's moods or responses puzzling. Your Venus does not aspect John's Venus While you may be very fond of each other, you're quite dissimilar in some important ways. Your tastes diverge widely and you tend to express love very differently. You don't like the same people and have different interests. You wish John dressed differently. John's Sun in your 1st house: The attraction between the two of you was powerful, dynamic and mutual from the very beginning. John immediately recognized you as a kindred spirit and instinctively gravitated toward you. You strongly respond to the dynamic energy of John's personality. You are so affected by John's presence that sometimes you may find yourself deferring to needs or expectations sensed but not actually expressed. John, in turn, identifies strongly with you, loves the intimacy of shared perceptions and feels reinforced and validated by your presence. John's Moon in your 4th house: There were strong parallels in your childhood experiences and you intuitively sensed when you met John that you had a great deal in common. Perhaps you were reminded of one of your parents. In any event, you experienced an odd familiarity from the beginning. You both have similar ideas about the way a home should be and could live together quite compatibly. You are happily comfortable when the two of you are alone. Even if you don't actually live together, John understands your needs and creates an emotional nest for you. John's Mercury in your 2nd house: You really should consult John about business matters. Here is someone who takes an interest in your financial problems and could give you excellent advice about managing your money. This interest may be self serving. Is John a bit too interested in your finances? You may find yourself oddly possessive of some of this advice and resentful of anyone else who might benefit from it as well. Make sure you don't betray a trust or claim John's ideas as your own for your own financial benefit. Stick to the plan you both agreed on. John's Venus in your 11th house: John is a wonderful friend to you who cares about you and shares your values and goals. You may have met through mutual friends and continue to have wonderful friends in common. Yours is a lovely, non-possessive relationship. You are very kind to each other. A strong interest you share with other friends probably involves both of you in an organization where you work hard to realize similar goals. This group connection forms a strong, solid basis for your relationship. You genuinely like and help one another. John's Mars in your 12th house: John doesn't always have a terrific influence upon your state of mind or will power. Often, when you are together, you find yourself sliding back into bad habits or old behavior patterns. Feelings of confinement or insecurity come to the surface. While John may appear to approach matters quite aggressively and forthrightly, you often have an uneasy sense of things going on behind your back which are not entirely in your interests. If you tend to repress feelings of anger, John brings them to the fore. John's Jupiter in your 8th house: This relationship has a lot of fascinating possibilities. First of all, when John is around you find yourself more aware of your sexuality - and John's! This would be true even if your relationship is not a sexual one. You share mystical and spiritual ideas. This would also be an excellent business relationship. The two of you intuitively sense what would be of marketable interest to others and, together, you could implement your ideas. You tap into John's talents which is financially remunerative to you both. John's Saturn in your 8th house: It would be better if this was a friendship or business relationship. There could be difficulties if it were more intimate or sexual. Of course, things can be worked out. The problem has to do with trust. You're a little afraid to be vulnerable to John. You have a strong sense of responsibility for John's financial situation. If you don't actually wind up paying the bills, you are certainly concerned about the expenses. John's lack of funds or judgment might reduce your own business prospects. John's Uranus in your 8th house: You find something unsettling about John's very presence. Even if John is not the sort of person you are ordinarily attracted to, you find yourself responding in a sexual way. At the very least, intense curiosity and interest are aroused. John's unusual talents and special abilities not only fascinate you, they may stimulate you to concoct innovative financial schemes which can be of mutual material interest. Business ties would be erratic. John's Neptune in your 12th house: You may think you understand each other better than you do. Actually, you tend to weave many fantasies around John. They range from romantic illusions to anxieties and suspicions which may be almost paranoiac. You sometimes find John vaguely threatening. This relationship may not have the best effect upon your state of mind. This is due in part to the fact that you are far more easily influenced and, perhaps, manipulated by John than you may realize by bringing out aspects of your personality you cannot control. John's Pluto in your 10th house: Your life was at a cross-roads when you met. You were at a point when you were considering transforming changes in life direction. Then John came along and everything was set in motion. It's still unclear if John actually influenced you or was merely a catalyst. Whatever position of authority you normally hold, when you're with John, the seat of power is clear. And you're not sitting in it. John's influence over you can be quite astonishing. At times you almost appear to be irresistibly under a magical spell. |
